Romance....

What's romance? Must it be serendipitous? Or can romance be planned? Is it still romantic if someone does something KNOWING what effect it will have on you? Is it romance when a guy gives you flowers because he knows that it's your favourite? Or is it romance when he 'happens' to give you flowers and they 'happen' to be your favourite?

What if you meet a guy. A cassanova for lack of better terminology. He knows what to say, he knows what to do. And he knows how to push all the right buttons to make you melt. Is it still romantic if he felt nothing behind those actions?

Is it romantic if he did it for his amusement?

~LB