I don't get it .......do you ?

Has anyone noticed how quick people are to call men CHEATERS on here.......if they do one thing out of the norm by not calling or not having a cell phone then they are married and no good cheaters...sometimes people are so judgemental that it scares me and I have known plenty of women cheaters in my time actually more than men.....am I the only one that feels like this ? Is there no one you can trust in the world anymore or should one always have their guard up ? I am beginning to think relationship are just not worth the pain and trouble of weeding out the liars and the cheats !!!!!