Do you think it's ok for your s/o to look through your texts?

yes? no?

Update: July 04, 2009.
thank you all who responded! and i respect everyones opinion even if its different then mine :) i actually got a lot more responses than i thought haha :P

Update: July 04, 2009.
i have nothing to hide, but i think, personally, no he/she shouldnt. my girlfriend does and i honestly kind of dont care, but there was once that my friend said something about her to me through a text and she took it the wrong way...long story short, it resulted in a huge argument thing that lasted about a month and almost caused a break up many times. now theres not as much trust and i dont like her going through my phone because its MY personal privacy and MY business, not hers. but now she gets mad when i tell her not to because she thinks i dont trust her and that i have something to hide..and i NEVER look through her phone, btw