I think the concept of seduction, perhaps more precisely seducing, has gotten a bad rap. "Seducing a woman" conjures up images of some low-life taking advantage of a drunken, defenseless female. That's too bad because seduction, seducing, being seduced is where passion comes from.

Now, I know that all women (yes, all) like and want to be seduced, even if that's not the word they might use. Maybe it's an act of convincing a woman to do something that she already wants to do, but hesitates to do because she doesn't want to be judged by society. She can then fall back on the "Oh, I was seduced," excuse.

So, I think it's time to take the word back and put it in it's proper place in the mating game. Seducing is using words to tap into emotions and feelings that stir up passion. It is natural and required by most woman. They want the build up to the explosion that seduction brings and what is more, if you are good at it, the act of seduction, she'll probably be back for more.