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(Female, 22-25) asked:

One of my BFFs just had a baby with her boyfriend.

I just found out that he's cheated on her a few times, while she was pregnant - with a girl she is kind of friends with (I'm not friends with this other girl). There's evidence to prove it.

Of course I haven't told her or will I as it's not my place and I don't want to break her new family that she's so overjoyed with.

I just feel so incredibly bad for her and I don't know if this makes me a bad friend for not telling her. I'd want to know if I was her, but she's very insecure and easily hurt and I really can't do that to her.

Am I doing the right thing? Am I a bad person?
What would you do?

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<br />I just found out that he's cheated on her a few times, while she was pregnant - with a girl she is kind of friends with (I'm not friends with this other girl). There's evidence to prove it.
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<br />Of course I haven't told her or will I as it's not my place and I don't want to break her new family that she's so overjoyed with.
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<br />I just feel so incredibly bad for her and I don't know if this makes me a bad friend for not telling her. I'd want to know if I was her, but she's very insecure and easily hurt and I really can't do that to her.
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<br />Am I doing the right thing? Am I a bad person?
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