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My 18 year old husky is dying.

I adopted her at 14.She was thrown out of a truck.She could never loose the fear of being beat.My heart is bleeding.So sad.Can'nt stop crying.

I serve my husband his food, getting sick of it

is this a duty for a wife, it sucks!

he never kisses me on the lips, he never stays a full night

I only see him on his terms, when I asked if he was single he told me yes. He comes over when it is convenient for him, he only calls me from payphones, and he never stays a full night. I only see him at my house or when he stops by my work. When I told him I felt like "the other woman" he told me that I wasnt.

Update: February 08, 2010.
I just wanted to say "thank you" to everyone who responded to my question. All of your answers just confirmed what I was feeling with regard to how I am being treated. I am sorry if I gave "bad" ratings to anyone, I rated according to the responses that I got. If I gave a 'zero' rating my thoughts were that the response was neither bad or good. I was not trying to be mean about it. And to the person who called me "a dumb bitch" for doing so, thank you for making me feel even more rediculous for being in the situation than I already am. I will be moving on from this guy, I do deserve better. Thank you.

How do I do this? Any advice?

My ex boyfriend was emotionally abusive and manipulative (he even had me questioning myself), and yet I still have feelings for him. I wish I could just shut them off, but we were together for a long time. I wish I could do that. Some women have no problem doing that, and I just wish I could be more like that. I can only seem to remember the good memories of when he was sweet to me. I also miss caring for someone and being constantly needed by him. I suppose it just feels strange and different not having that anymore. I feel like I've been emotionally drained

Someone gave me this advice. Would you agree with this?

"You have to make yourself view him differently."

How do I do this? Or what do you all think? What do you suggest?

Dating and unemployment

Do you think men get turned off when a female is unemployed because they feel they are needy or will be a liability for them?

A Question of A Specific Type Of Woman

A dark haired girl with blue eyes...they say this combination of woman can have anything she wants.

Why?

What do you think the psychological implications are...

of someone blaming welfare recipients for the state of this economy?

They have no power over anything. Yet when things get bad, instead of turning their anger on the people responsible, they blame poor people.

Only in America.

I cannot describe my frustration about this government.

Here we are in the worst recession in 30 years. I, personally have been out of work since last April and I am trying as hard as I possibly can with absolutely no luck to find a job. I, along with many others am about to lose everything and end up on the streets while there are perfectly able people just living off the government, waiting for their next monthly check. It makes me sick. Just a rant. Your comments are welcome.

Would you ever date someone who didn't like nor wanted children?

Or is the desire to have children necessary for a relationship?

How do I end this affair?

I am having an affair. Both of us are married. I want to end it, but I want to keep my lover as my friend. In fact, I never wanted to have a physical affair, but here I am, sleeping with someone else. As with the cliche, traditional affairs, we work together, and neither of us can quit our jobs or leave.

Cliche again here, but my lover is SUPER emotional and tends to get VERY angry/irrational. He trusts me and says that he is 100% himself with me. And I believe him, bc I've met his wife and know his family situation (traditional, religious family, from a very old school culture).

How do I end it gracefully? Can I keep him as my friend? I do love him, as a human being, but I love my husband more. Any hope for my situation?

Do you feel like you were given a reason to be put on this Earth? If so, what is it?