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Do you remember when Janet Jackson supposedly was doing those Colonic things ?

I won't discredit it by referring to it as shoooting Yuban up her ass, but do you remember this ?

What was this whole thing about anyway ?

I think it was a whole lot of manure about how it *cleanses*. I think she was just getting a buzz.

...and what about these *people* who were doing it with alcohol...what the hell is the matter with *people* ?

- Asked by buffersclone, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Los Angeles, Managerial

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I need suggestions on storage

I am officially not going to the thrift store any more - no more room. But there are three plastic bags behind my wicker chair that have clothes and in addition I have clothes on my wicker chair.

I cannot fit these in my closets. The only place that I can keep the three plastic bags is behind the wicker chair, however, keeping the clothes on the chair I am not crazy about. So how do I combine the clothes on the chair with the clothes in the plastic bags located behind my chair.

The problem is I cannot put the clothes that is on the wicker chair in a plastic bag and then put them behind the chair that would look awful.

Any suggestions - but nothing cumbersome

Update: November 20, 2009.
Ok my problem is solved. I figured it out on my own. I went to the 99 cent store and purchased one of the big shopping bags that are very decorative and pretty. Emptied the plastic bags that were behind the wicker chair and folded them and put them in the shopping bag. You cannot detect it - it is lower than the chair. Then the stuff that was on the chair I refolded and put them on top of my hope chest that is under my window. My room looks great now.

Update: November 19, 2009.
Ok please do not answer that I should give away. This is not my goal. Everything fits and I want to keep them.

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Have you ever been in a Bad Romance...

that was so good you just didn't want to give it up?

- Asked by chestnutfairy, A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Administrative

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Uggh, what do I do?

My friend is completely stuck on her ex-boyfriend. Every time something reminds her of him, or she talks to him (they're still friends and she refuses to give up the friendship) she gets super depressed, cuts, and thinks about suicide. Also, this guy has no interest in taking her back.

I want to help her, but I'm sick of dealing with her drama. Is there something I can do?

She's bipolar, isn't on any medication, and I don't think she's seeing a therapist or anything. She used to be on medication but has been off of it for about a year.

- Asked by bliss0392, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?

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RACE AND PORN AND RACE AND PORN

I'm a straight non-caucasian female who enjoys porn.
I watch all porn; straight,gay and lesbian.
The race of straight or gay porn stars doesnt matter to me and I get very turned on by them all.
However, I feel absolutely nothing when the lesbian porn stars are white.
Does the race of porn stars matter to you?

- Asked by Female, 22-25

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Fashion rules with pantyhose...

I'm talking the old school pantyhose, not leggings, or stirrup style leggins, etc.

Any fashion rules you follow? For example, no open toed shoes with hose.

Specifically, do you think black hose should be worn only with black shoes?

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Who Cares?

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Needing Dress Up Ideas!

If you could have a girl dress up as anything you'd want...what would it be? I need some sexy dress up ideas :)

- Asked by anykel, A Trendsetter, Female, 29-35

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So the guy who wanted sex for food thinks the women who agree to this arrangement have to be hot.

I'm pretty sure this is the anomie who wanted a beautiful woman he was dating to have sex with him because he bought her dinner--he's the only one in this age group that has me banned and he always asks these sort of questions (e.g. the ones that assume that any woman he dates has to be gorgeous and also has to be willing to act like a prostitute).

So, what does this say about male entitlement notions, especially with guys in this age group? I mean, not only did this guy expect a woman to have sex with him because he bought her a meal, but he thinks he has the right to expect this from a BEAUTIFUL woman--treating an ugly woman like a prostitute simply won't do; he has to have a beautiful woman to treat like a prostitute. Amazing.

Are a lot of men like this, or is this just something that crawled out from under a rock for the purpose of posting on Answerology? :)

Update: November 19, 2009.
Wait a sec--this is fascinating. According to one person who responded, males get to order dinner companions according to "mail order" type guidelines (e.g. the person they ask out on a date has to fit this catalogue bill like some sort of merchandise); if she doesn't look like she did in the catalogue, he gets to "return" the "merchandise." Wow. And some guys wonder why they're single. :/

Update: November 19, 2009.
I did not admonish males in general; I asked a rhetorical question. Some people prefer to pretend that either the male in question is not "serious" or "a real person" (and therefore they don't have to answer the rhetorical question--which is interesting in and of itself if you think about it). ;)

- POP'd by electragold21, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, New York, Teaching

She lied - she's overweight!

I met a woman who didn't tell the truth about herself on the website. What would you do if you were in my shoes?

Update: November 18, 2009.
i said i would take slender, athletic and toned or average..none of which she was- and she wanted me to buy her a meal.

- Asked by Male, 46-55

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Should I take his word for it...or still wait??

I have been with "P" for five years off and on. And during that time, he's had girlfriends and I've had boyfriends...but now we're the closest we've ever been (spending so much time together, really opening up to each other,trying to trust each other, and being intimate) but he still chooses to call me his "friend" around my family and our mutual friends and isn't willing to finally take things further after all these years. He says its because his last girlfriend "damaged him" but anything can happen in time. With me being the impatient type and feels that i've somewhat "waited" and often made him a priority in my life for five long years that it's time for us to finally see if what held us together all these years really meant anything and finally be exclusive, also I dont want to be considered "just a friend" anymore...
should I just walk away from this situation since he says he enjoys his life the way it is and look for what i want somewhere else or wait for him ...even though i might just be waiting in vain?
Any advise would be greatly appreciated! ;o)

- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 29-35, Miami, Teaching

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