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Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

Should I stay or leave the marriage?

I've been married since Jan 09 after only meeting my wife 2 months before we were married. She has anxiety mostly about our relationship, for no reason. She has a short temper and can get angry and at times can go into an unexpected rage and a couple of times threw things. Earlier this year my wife went from "talking" about a problem we had into a sudden rage. She beat me over the head with both fits and kicked me seven times in the chest as I was on the ground. Before the police came, she cut both her arms and blamed me to keep herself from going to jail. The police were not too sure about her story and didn't arrest anybody. She has since been charged by the prosecutor and I've been subpoenaed to testify again her. She has apologized, but her family was left to believe that I cut her and out of fear that they will be subpoenaed, she has not told them the truth. Should I stay in this relationship?

Update: November 19, 2009.
Thank you all for responding as I've had to handle this "event" mostly on my own since this is not something you can easily share with people. But I needed some thoughts and opinions from people that don't know either of us and just tell it like it is and you all have done that. We went fast to the alter because I felt and she did too that this was "it". I knew better, but let my heart lead the way without the brain... Thanks again.

- Asked by Male, 46-55
Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

With a hectic schedule that includes young children and not a lot of alone time what are some ways

A guy can be romantic?

I have an odd schedule because of slightly shifted hours and a commute. As a result I get home anywhere from 8 - 8:30. We put the kids to bed and eat around 9. Then my wife goes to bed around 10:30.

When I ask my wife she says she would like for me to be more romantic but given this schedule I'm not sure what I can do. I need specific ideas as opposed to generalities. Any ideas?

- POP'd by newnumbersguy32, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Financial / Banking

Can somebody help me with cheap romantic ideas/gifts?

For a long time now, me and my boyfriend didnt do anything romantic. I need to spend some time alone with him, and I wanna make it special. Does anyone has cheap romantic idea.. be it a gift, dinner or anything else

- Asked by mihamihaela, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Other Profession
Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

OY!!!!! . . . . . . .

After being away on business, I thought it would be nice to bring mrs. mamu a little gift.

"How about some perfume?" I asked the cosmetics clerk. She showed me a bottle costing $150.00.

"That's a bit much," I said, so she returned with a smaller bottle for $50.00.

"That's still quite a bit," I complained.

Growing annoyed, the clerk brought out a tiny $15.00 bottle.

"What I mean," I said, "is I'd like to see something really cheap."

The clerk handed me a mirror.

- Asked by themamu, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65, Consulting
Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

grins...............

I was talking to mrs. mamu, "I'm feeling so depressed today."

"Why, Honey?"

"It's just that sometimes I feel so alone and useless."

Mrs. Mamu answered, "Oh, you don't have to feel so alone. A lot of people think you're useless."

- Asked by themamu, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65, Consulting
Married Life / 1 day ago Back To Top

If you are good... life will reward you life

I used to have this stupid believe but its not true as I lately learned. Things are not like this in real life. I am not talking religious but principles like don't hurt, don't lie, don't steal, help whenever you can etc.
What do you think

- Asked by Female, 36-45
Married Life / 2 days ago Back To Top

should my husband get rid of his past "girl" friends?

my husband and I are seperated and his is talking to his past friends....girls.

- Asked by Female, 22-25
Married Life / 2 days ago Back To Top

marriage at 18?????????

me and my s/o have been in a monogamous relationship for over three years now. We have had our rough spots, but we didn't call it quits and kept working together. Now we are thinking about marriage. We both know that its going to be tough in the begining... What we would really like to know though is the perks and down sides to getting married at this age... Auctully I am 18 and he is 21. Thanks in advance

- Asked by A Trendsetter, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?
Married Life / 2 days ago Back To Top

Another question for the homemakers...

those of you out there that do not have children or were already homemakers before you had children...
did you know you wanted to be a homemaker before you met your husband? I know that is what I want, but I am unsure of how to find a man who wants the same... I know it is extremely rare these days. Is it just some chance meeting or is there an online website that is mostly men and women looking for such an arrangement?

- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 18-21, Home Maker
Married Life / 2 days ago Back To Top

Do you find yourself settling for less because of your age?

Are you in a hurry to get married/remarried because you're anxious about not getting any younger, and you don't want to continue to be alone?

- Asked by melimeg1972, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Baltimore, Who Cares?
Married Life / 2 days ago Back To Top

Is there such thing as a married couple that doesn't argue and/or fight?

Also, are any of you happily married? Do you never want to get married? Have you been married and if so, would you get married again? What are the benefits of being married?

- Asked by melimeg1972, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Baltimore, Who Cares?