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Dating / 12 hours ago Back To Top

am i in an abusive relationship or wat is it really?

my boyfriend and i wer 2gether for 6yrs have a 1yr old we had a few fallen outs befor but a few days ago we fought i mean hit for hit kinda thing he was kinda under alcohol too, i checkd his phone an i notice he called this girl number who he claim he dont no so i get mad an slap da fuck out him with the phone for lien to me we started fighting i really have a trust issue with him, he hit me as if he didnt care i was a woman chocked and punched me he has slapped me befor but the way he hit me this time was like it was demons that had pozest him to freak out like that he bruised my thigh i love him and even tho i think we wer both wrong i dont no wat to do now because i feel like he doesnt even love me the way i love him anymore.i dont want him to hit me again cuz i think i mite killl him, now we havent spoken to each other in days even living in the same house and he's been going out an not sayin anything.... i need some advice please

Update: November 20, 2009.
lol yea we do. its not like he is hit me when ever he wants too i more likely provoked him but i was pissed becuz he lied too me

- Asked by mimila, A Sportif, Female, 18-21
Dating / 12 hours ago Back To Top

The guy I broke up with a year ago and dated for 3 years got married last week...

I am feeling so depressed. I know we were not right for each other (he was unfaithful and gave me an infection) but I wanted it to work and I really cared for him. I hadn't been with anyone except him since my divorce over 15 years ago. Why do relationships have to be so complicated? Now I know why it took me 15 years to even consider a relationship after my divorce. Are all men alike? The ones I've been with are.

- Asked by Female, 46-55
Dating / 12 hours ago Back To Top

Well he is at work right now that's where

Good laugh is priceless I have to tell YA : )
I got private e-mail asking me where is that guy am taken with :) It took me a moment to think and respond well he is at work :) What is this about and who the hell are you?

Another e-mail NO why don't you have his photo on your profile where is he on it LOL LOL LOL
Do you have photo of your guy-girl on profile or it that big NO NO for you ?

Update: November 20, 2009.
LOL LOL (blush) : ) Yes i understand thats exactly why many including myself people don't do this there is to many insane lunatics to have your loved ones exposed to them by putting up their photos...

- Asked by shygirl1979, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 26-28, Medical / Dental
Dating / 13 hours ago Back To Top

havings dreams about your ex on a regular basis.

i don't understand why, but i always seem to have dreams about my ex boyfriend. they're always the same, but the end is usually similar. it's always us with a group of people, then it turns to just us, sneaking some time alone, and talking about our feelings together. it usually ends up with us kissing, or snuggling or something.

i tried looking up the dream psychology on this, but nothing suited my dream situation.

can anybody suggest what they might mean?

i was thinking maybe i'm still looking for some kind of answer or something.. but i don't care anymore! i'm in a new, very happy relationship. all this was from 2-3 years ago and i'm now in a relationship that's a year old. why won't these dreams leave me alone?

what could they mean?

- Asked by xokimmierose, A Life of the Party, Female, 18-21, Toronto
Dating / 14 hours ago Back To Top

Your opinion about the post date text

went on a date with a guy. The next day I sent him a text telling him I had a nice time and hoping that he got home safely.

A guy pal of mine said the "got home safely" part was very mommyish and not wlecomed.

In some ways I view the remark as a social convention (like asking how are you and not expecting to get anything more detailed than "Fine"). But just in case, I thought I would ask.

In general, are texts of this type welcomed at all.

Update: November 21, 2009.
Thanks for responding. What do you do post date wise when you had a good time and would like to see the person again?

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 29-35, London, Executive
Dating / 14 hours ago Back To Top

How agressive are you

when it comes to putting out the signals to let a man know you are interested? I want to make sure he "gets" it. LOL

- Asked by watbuttondoipush, An Alternative Girl, Female, Who Cares?, Financial / Banking
Dating / 14 hours ago Back To Top

Is he just not that into me?

I like this guy and he seems to like me too, we seem to have quite a bit in common an we're around the same age, but he doesn't want to date me incase it doesn't work out, as he is very close with my parents and doesn't want to jeopardise his friendship with them.

Would it be correct of me to assume he just isn't that interested in me? I mean, he obviously doesn't think I'm worth the risk and doesn't have much hope for us as a couple... right?

- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 18-21, Student
Dating / 15 hours ago Back To Top

I briefly dated a guy divorced from a 21 year marriage. We never had sex now he wants to be friends.

I briefly dated a guy who was married for 21 years and his wife divorced him after she had an affair. He has been divorced for 1 and a half years. We dated really hot and heavy for a few months and then he said he could not be in a relationship right now. I respected his wishes and did not contact him after that. He then called me up about a month later and said he really cares for me and wants to keep in touch or be friends. He lives 265 miles away and we were never intimate but we had great chemistry and physical attraction. When his youngest child graduates from high school in two years he plans to possibly move to the city where I live. What does this mean?

- Asked by Female, 36-45
Dating / 15 hours ago Back To Top

Never get married, but relationships are fine..

Will a 26 yr old guy who is adamant that he never wants to get married or have children, ever change his mind on that? He does have a serious gf of a couple years..so its not that he wants to play the field for his whole life... but why would a guy even BE in a serious relationship if he never plans to get married??

- Asked by An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Toronto, Technical
Dating / 16 hours ago Back To Top

So it has been over 4 dates? Is she still really interested?

Ok, so I met this nice girl online. We emailed then talked on the phone. Then met up for a first date. Then progressively went out on a few more fun dates, over the next few weeks. We don't talk or text much during the week but talk for hours on our dates. We kissed on the second date. She even let me stay over one night after a fun night out with her, and nothing happened just a lot of making out. She even suggested next time she wants to come over my place to hang out. So she said she would call me that Sunday and let me know when she was coming over. Didn't hear from her... she apologized in a text and said she was sick. Didn't hear from her at all again for a week... I remembered her favorite soup, so I went and got her some. I left it on her front step, left and texted her that I dropped something off. Finally she called and said "That made her night, and why didn't I knock" and "That was so sweet" and "I will give you a call". It has been a few days and again, heard nothing from her. I got curious and checked out her online dating profile and it showed she was online??? I really like her, and this is very rare for me. I am picky and have dated all the wrong girls. I know if I chase her too much it will scare her off. What the heck do I do, I just really want to spend more time with her and get to know her better. By the way I am 30 and she is 26. I spent most of my 20's dating and being immature. This is the first time I feel this way. It is really ticking me off. Is this girl interested in me? or just playing games?

Update: November 20, 2009.
Called her already. I called her maybe 2 or 3 times over the past 2 weeks. Straight to voicemail, and yes I left messages. Her responses were texts "I will give you a call". Then few days go by- no call

- Asked by A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Philadelphia