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Dating / 15 hours ago Back To Top

What's the trick to being old (44) and happily single?

Guess I'm not that old & don't really look it... but I'm feeling that way being single, no family and no wife.

- Asked by sluggo, A Jock, Male, 36-45, Transportation
Dating / 15 hours ago Back To Top

What does it mean if a guy says "Give it some time we"ll work stuff out either way"?

i am going through rough time very stressed, I caused a fight with my boyfriend and said some mean and hurtful things to him & broke up. I have apologized to him, he told me he still loves me as well. He sent me a message saying "Give it some time we"ll work stuff out either way" what does he mean ?

- Asked by aharvat, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45
Dating / 16 hours ago Back To Top

How much contact should people in realationship have?

I've been in a relationship for a year. We both live very busy and opposite scheduled lives. We text or email 3-4x a day, we can't talk on the phone because of work. We see each other 1-2x a week. Is this a typical relationship when you dont live together?

Update: November 20, 2009.
We are happy. I just think we miss out on alot because he resort to text and emails. We when are together I realize everytime there are things I didnt know about him or what he did throughout the week/month. Sometimes I feel like he is a stranger lol. And I dont think it should be like that after a year.

- Asked by A Player, Female, 26-28, Who Cares?
Dating / 16 hours ago Back To Top

Is it worth the wait?

So I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and the whole time it has been long distance. He is only 3 hours away but I'm a busy student since I also have to work to pay for said school. My only day off is Sunday and pretty soon he will be working weekends.

Once upon a time he told me he could really see a future with me and see himself moving down here for me. I've tried not to pressure him into things but lately its been really hard. His work place is upgrading and the project will be about another 16 month long process, which he wants to stick around for. I can understand that, but at the same time, I'm miserable most of the time when I think about him. I can't help but feel like I am second priority in his life and he loves his job more then me (which doesn't even pay that well or guarantee a better future job...).

He says he might move down after the 16 months. But I wonder if he will just love his job even more and choose it over me all over again 16 months down the road. So my question is, would you stick around and wait 16 months for your s/o to decide what they love more in their life or would you jump ship right away because the wait isn't worth the misery?

- Asked by Female, 18-21
Dating / 17 hours ago Back To Top

I cannot carry a convo for more than an hour - help!

I have NEVER been able to talk on the phone with a guy for more than an hour. Everyone else I know seems to have no problem doing this. My best friend said she once talked all night with her boyfriend until almost 5 am or something. What do people talk about? I'd really appreciate some pointers so that I,too, can be like this poster and the girl he's interested in and talk on the phone for hours.

- POP'd by Female, 22-25

Do I have a chance with her?

I'm really good friends with this girl. We've been good friends for a few months now. I really like her. She got me to admit I like her over a month ago when we were texting (yes, I'm aware of how lame that is, I didn't plan it like that). She really liked this other guy at the time, and said she didnt't want to make our friendship weird at the time.
She ended up going out with the other guy for about a week and a half, and they broke up earlier this week. She's been acting really nice to me all week. More than usual. I compliment her all the time and she says I'm really nice to her, and she's called me sweet and stuff like that. We talked on the phone for a few hours the other day. We have a lot in common and can make eachother laugh easily. I've had about seven different people tell me I should go out with her. I just don't know if she even kinda likes me, or is just being friendly. Do I have a shot?

- Asked by Male, 18-21
Dating / 17 hours ago Back To Top

I met a gal with 3 kids...

She's nice but talks a lot... She's taking about having more kids and is talking (joking I hope) about getting married and moving in with me. I think she's kidding around, but there is some seriousness to it I think. I don't make the best decisions when it comes to life choices... So, I'm asking: Something is wrong with this picture isn't it?

- Asked by Male, 26-28
Dating / 17 hours ago Back To Top

If a man cares more for his car than his girlfriend...

It's time to break up with him: Agree or disagree?

- POP'd by Female, 22-25

Why won't my boyfriend let me drive his Corvette?!

My bf (of 5 mo) has a work truck and an 2002 Z06 Vette...he leaves for work every morn and takes his one single key to the Vette with him.

The other day I mentioned to him that my truck had a tire that needed air and I felt unsafe to drive it with my son in it. So, I would think that he would be considerate and offer me the key so I could take my son back to his dads 20 miles away on the highway. Not so much.

Is his car really that sacred to him that he'd rather see me drive and blow out a tire, with my son in the car, than to let me borrow his precious Vette?



Update: November 20, 2009.
Thanks everyone for your responses. I have driven the Vette to follow him to work one day. I don't know why all you men think that all these hot rod cars are so hard to handle? Puuuuhhhhhhlleeease.... I drove it just fine. I am deathly afraid of putting air in my tires and I actually look at them everytime I get in my truck. We have only been dating for 5 months, true, but he talks about marriage, kids etc. i am going to meet his whole family at Thanksgiving and we live together...so it's not like I am some random girl he is "dating". My son is 12 and has ridden in the Vette when my bf takes him back to his dads. And my ex-husband isn't going to scratch up the car. We all go to 6Flags together for Christs sake!~ Ugh anyways.

- Asked by zinerva, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35
Dating / 17 hours ago Back To Top

Should I tell my boy friend Im going clubbing?

Me and my bf have only been dating three weeks. He lives an hour away and Im in college, niether of us have cars so we don't get to see each other that much. Well I love to party and go clubbing, we even met in a club. He knows I love going out to dance, but because we met in a club and had sex that night he is a little nervous about me going back to the clubs with out him. He never tells me not to go and says he cool with it but I know it upsets him. I went out last night with some girls for the first time sinse we've been dating and was well behaved. I danced mostly with friends, didn't let any guys get to into it, and didn't get any numbers or give out mine. I never told him that I went but Im going out again tonight with the same people. Should I tell him? I know I need to be honest with him, but I know he gets nervous because I am such a party girl. What should I do?

- Asked by A Trendsetter, Female, 18-21, Artist / Musician / Writer
Dating / 17 hours ago Back To Top

Any body ever heard of the rubber band theory ??

The reason I ask is that it kinda feels like my relationship right now...we spend time together every weekend, due to conflicting work schedules during the week...feel very close and then I feel like he pulls away emotionally until the next time we are together...I am just wondering when it might end...if ever...and what I can do to keep him snapping back

- Asked by nwilhelm, A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45, Baltimore, Managerial
Dating / 17 hours ago Back To Top

Mike + Jonathan = My perfect guy

I was thinking about my Exes and I realized that if they morphed into one person, that would totally be my ideal guy in terms of chemistry, looks, personality, character, sense of humor, attitude to life, common interests and so on! Shame they were two different people.

Does anyone else know what I'm on about?!

Well, with that in mind, I should never settle, right?



- Asked by Female, 26-28