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Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Is it asking to much?

To want a relationship, a happy relationship with a woman that doesn't involve power struggles with her?
I'm to old for this type of nonsense.

- Asked by A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 29-35, Who Cares?
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

How to stop seeing someone?

I broke up with my girlfriend of four years, and obviously (like all men) went straight out and slept with the first person I could pull! Shes a nice girl, but me and my girlfriend are on speaking terms, and we still love each other but had to break up due to it being a hard time to be together and intend on getting back together in the future! However, the girl I slept with wants to see me again, but just as a casual sex thing...but I don't want that because I feel bad on my ex as I know she wouldn't be out meeting new people!

So I have two questions...!

1) Is it wrong to have gone out so soon after breaking up and sleep with someone else?

2) How do I tell this girl that I don't want to see her again, in a nice way?

Thanks!

- Asked by A Life of the Party, Male, 22-25, Student
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

My S/O read this question to me last night and ask me if I was settling for less because of my age.

I said no, I was happy with him it had nothing to do with age. So in return I asked him the same question. He told me yes he was settling for less because of his age.

I can't stop thinking about it and I'm like well honestly is a good thing I guess. Just not easy knowing your partner would rather be with someone different but is settling with you.

How would it make you feel if your partner said this to you?

- POP'd by curiouscat67, A Hippie Chick, Female, 36-45

Do you find yourself settling for less because of your age?

Are you in a hurry to get married/remarried because you're anxious about not getting any younger, and you don't want to continue to be alone?

- Asked by melimeg1972, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Baltimore, Who Cares?
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

The reality check!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was walking down the street. I seen this girl sitting down on the bus stop. Then suddenly I see my ex running towards her hugging and kissing her with so much passion.My heart stop, the hair on my back started to stand up, and the tears started rushing down my cheek. I asked myself what's wrong with me!!!! Why my emotion took over me like this?. I broke up with him over a month ago, because I felt he was just that into me. Is this normal? And I'm aware he not good for me because he was just using me for his convenience.

- Asked by bigburd86, A Career Woman, Female, 22-25, Miami, Administrative
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

why would a guy just not contact me? all was great and then, he just stopped calling and texting me.

why do guys do this? i mean if u don't want to talk to me anymore, just let me know, im a big girl, he knows i don't do drama. when i asked him if he just wants me to leave him alone he says no everytime. im giving him his out, so take it if thats what u really want. why keep stringing me along for nothing? they say guys aren't complicated, well YES THEY ARE!!!

- Asked by A Career Woman, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Okay, I gotta ask....

Maybe I am old school, but why would you go after a girl who is playing these games. I mean if you have someone you are comfortable with enough to plan this out, why not just date that person.

I guess what I am asking is this. After getting denied for months by a couple of young ladies, I have come across a nice young lady and we are hitting it off rather nicely. The issue now is that women who I showed interest in and had them blow me off are now starting to show interest. To me it is simple, stick with the one who never played games and has been just as consistant with the attention as I have to her. I mean logically, doesn't that just make sense. Don't deal with the people who want you only when others do.

Thoughts?

Update: November 19, 2009.
So, who thinks I should actually give the other girls who are now showing interest a chance and go out on a date with them if the opportunity arises. I'll put it this way...one of the other girls did point out that the new interest has been going out on dates with other guys while talking to me. For me it is more of a time issue, but should if I do get time shoudl I go out on a date with these other girls. I don't think I should, but what are y'alls thoughts?

Update: November 19, 2009.
Some of you ladies need to get that chip off of your shoulders. Please reread my post. I am saying that the guy like myself should go after the girl who is actually honestly showing him attention and will go out on a date with him rather than the girl who blew him off. It just seem logical. She is even willing to go on this date with him to make this other woman jealous. The guy is doing to the woman what the other woman is doing to him....

- POP'd by juandontbeg, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35, Charlotte, Self-Employed

Hoping to make her jealous... i know its imature but do you think it could work?

There is a girl who i'm "head over heels" for. Over the past year we have become pretty good friends. As a "last ditch" effort to break out of the "friend's zone" i'm thinking of getting another female friend of mine (who she doesn't know) to go out with me one night where we'll run into my "unrequited love" and introduce her as my "date".

What effect do you think this would have? I'm hopeing it might make her a bit jealous. In a way, make her start to worry that i might not be available much longer... kind of the old adage "she wants what she can't have".

Keep in mind that my "date friend" will be fully aware that i'm trying to make the other girl jealous.

- Asked by Male, 29-35
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Guys, what do you like to get as gifts?

I need to know what to get my guy for Christmas and his birthday. All he says is that he wants me but he gets that every day i need to get him something eles. Any ideas?

- Asked by A Trendsetter, Female, 18-21, Artist / Musician / Writer
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Women Can Be So Silly Sometimes.

If you had a $60,000 Corvette would you ever just hand the keys over to your woman and tell her to have fun?

- POP'd by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Boston, Science / Engineering

Why won't my boyfriend let me drive his Corvette?!

My bf (of 5 mo) has a work truck and an 2002 Z06 Vette...he leaves for work every morn and takes his one single key to the Vette with him.

The other day I mentioned to him that my truck had a tire that needed air and I felt unsafe to drive it with my son in it. So, I would think that he would be considerate and offer me the key so I could take my son back to his dads 20 miles away on the highway. Not so much.

Is his car really that sacred to him that he'd rather see me drive and blow out a tire, with my son in the car, than to let me borrow his precious Vette?



Update: November 20, 2009.
Thanks everyone for your responses. I have driven the Vette to follow him to work one day. I don't know why all you men think that all these hot rod cars are so hard to handle? Puuuuhhhhhhlleeease.... I drove it just fine. I am deathly afraid of putting air in my tires and I actually look at them everytime I get in my truck. We have only been dating for 5 months, true, but he talks about marriage, kids etc. i am going to meet his whole family at Thanksgiving and we live together...so it's not like I am some random girl he is "dating". My son is 12 and has ridden in the Vette when my bf takes him back to his dads. And my ex-husband isn't going to scratch up the car. We all go to 6Flags together for Christs sake!~ Ugh anyways.

- Asked by zinerva, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35
Dating / 1 day ago Back To Top

Can somebody help me with cheap romantic ideas/gifts?

For a long time now, me and my boyfriend didnt do anything romantic. I need to spend some time alone with him, and I wanna make it special. Does anyone has cheap romantic idea.. be it a gift, dinner or anything else

- Asked by mihamihaela, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Other Profession