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Married Life / 4:04 AM - Wednesday October 07, 2009 Back To Top

sHOULD i BE WORRIED ABOUT MY WIFE?

My wife and I have been married for about 4 ½ years and have been together for almost 9, and I have never had any concerns about her actions. Recently she has started to run into her ex at the gym who tried to cause problems in the beginning of our relationship. She was upfront with me about the fact that they would see each other and tell me that they thought we should go hang out with him and his wife, but they knew that I would never go for that since I dislike him. After reviewing her texts online I noticed that they were texting or calling each other around the time they got off work and when my wife goes and works out. When I went to my wife's phone I noticed that she deleted all the texts they send each other. I confronted her on it and asked her why she was deleting these messages and her response was she knows I don't like him so she didn't want to make me upset by seeing those texts. I simply asked her not to delete them and she completely understands and she will no longer delete them. She said they were just texts asking whether or not he or she were going to the gym or giving each other hell about not going. Ex. Today's messages were:
Him: ETA?
Her: 4:15
Him: K
She was at the gym today for two hours.
My wife has always hated cheaters especially if there are kids involved. Unfortunately we don't have kids but the other guy does have two kids

- Asked by A Guy Critical, Male, 26-28, Dallas
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Dating / 4:21 PM - Thursday September 10, 2009 Back To Top

Do you ever think that the ones that respond to the cheating questions.....

telling people to mind their own business are cheaters themselves? I can't understand why you wouldn't say something if you care about the other person, unless it was a marriage where kids were involved. Then I could maybe see why. But if not I would absolutely want to know!

Update: September 10, 2009.
THX for all that responded. I certainly wasn't saying that was the case, just curious. Of note I found out my close friends boyfriend cheated on her and I didn't tell her b/c I didn't want to her. She found out from someone else and she was bullshit I didn't tell her and it almost ended our friendship. I guess in some cases you can't win, but I would rather be honest then hide things.

- Asked by lilacblue, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?
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Jokes, Polls & Anything Else / 1:48 PM - Monday September 07, 2009 Back To Top

"Cheaters never win, and winners never cheat."

Do you believe this statement is:

a) Always true.

b) Always false.

c) Depends.

d) Wait, let me check my neighbor's paper.

- Asked by fyf04, A Career Man, Male, 36-45, Chicago, Managerial
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Jokes, Polls & Anything Else / 8:57 PM - Friday September 04, 2009 Back To Top

Is the future of our society screwed?

I just read a statistic that 88% of high school kids cheat. Cheating is rewarded in life and plenty of people seem to get away with it.....Michael Milken may have spent a few years in jail but he ultimately is a free billionaire, Barry Bonds I can't name all the successful cheaters.

I also read a statistic that 80% of corporate executives cheat in golf.

Are we screwed? Have we lost our moral compass? Did we ever have one to begin with?

- Asked by meowmeowww, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, San Francisco, Technical
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Sex & Intimacy / 5:18 PM - Monday August 31, 2009 Back To Top

For all those who make digs at cheaters....

I have a high sex drive. And I find it difficult to not cheat even though I love and respect my boyfriend more then anything (hence why I haven't cheated on him).

But with such an intense sex drive and a high availability of the opposite sex I think it is nearly impossible not to cheat. Have a couple of drinks in your system and watch out. I think those that don't cheat or who judge others that do:

a) have a low sex drive
b) have limited availability to the opposite sex and
c) aren't seeked out by the opposite sex for various reasons.

God no matter how much I love someone and be with them for the rest of my life doesn't stop my desire to sexually be with other people.

I think it's too easy to judge for some people. Thoughts?



Update: September 01, 2009.
Hey everyone! Thanks for responding and giving me a lot of different opinions. Just to clarify some stuff though, I haven't cheated on my boyfriend or ever plan too. He's the most wonderful guy around but in the past I found it quite hard not to and was just saying that it can be difficult to resist tempatation (which I'm doing) and I don't judge those who have not been able to. Not everything is black and white. If my boyfriend is honest about cheating I would definately be forgiving. But as some said, it's the lying and sneaking around that is not right. No matter what. And once that starts happening, the relationship is as good as done. I think having sex one off with someone else is forgivable, lying about it is not.

- Asked by kthall, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Halifax, Hospitality
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Dating / 10:04 PM - Friday August 28, 2009 Back To Top

Why do "good guys" cheat?

There are the men out there that are liars, cheaters, jerks etc and don't even care that they are that.

And then there are the good guys who seem like they love their significant other and seem like the oh so faithful and all loving S/O.

But then they cheat?

Why do they do it????

Update: August 28, 2009.
I would like to know "who" said way back when that men need to spread their seed?? That they are programed that way? To me, it's one of those lies people keep telling because it sounds good. If it were meant to be that way. God would have created; Adam, Eve, Mary, Elizabeth, Amanda and so on. Get my point?

- Asked by thekissbandit, A Player, Female, 29-35
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Dating / 5:02 PM - Thursday August 13, 2009 Back To Top

I would just like to thank all of you....

Who gave me words of encouragement during my heartbreak! I never EVER expected him to be like that. Throws away the good thing for the trash, after telling me he doesn't like sl*tty cheaters....

So thank you, and to those saying I'm a drama queen, stfu!

fanny.

Update: August 13, 2009.
You guys are all wonderful! Consider the +2's Stars for all b/c I couldn't pick three answers! I am not going to lie when I say I cried for three whole hours last night, but I will be okay. I've actually been talking to a guy I work with that is really understanding with all this and is incredibly optimistic about life...and is a looker to boot haha. So, yes, I will okay. I just never expected it, not from him -- ever. and as for chick flicks, I've cried enough ladies! haha. Grab me a 12 pack of Pilsner and a football game and I'll be good!!!! xoxoxox

- Asked by fanny500, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Financial / Banking
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Sex & Intimacy / 4:45 PM - Wednesday August 12, 2009 Back To Top

Before you cheat, think about the possible consequences. Is cheating really worth hurting ur family?

I have no sympathy or empathy for cheaters...

- POP'd by unpredictable45, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Managerial

I am being blackmailed, I can't go to the police

I've been having an affair with a female client of mine for 7 months. My wife doesn't know a thing about it. I tried to end the affair, she threatened to tell my wife about us. I have kids so this other woman is meaning to ruin my family. Is this blackmail?

I want to end this affair without my wife finding out. This other woman wants me to get a divorce and be with her. It's not exactly dangerous like Fatal Attraction type but this woman is very determined.

What's done is done. I admit my mistake and I love my wife and kids. I don't want to lose them. Judge me if you want but give me options and advice. I can't turn back time so what do I do now?

- Asked by A Father Figure, Male, 26-28, Medical / Dental
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Sex & Intimacy / 1:50 AM - Wednesday August 12, 2009 Back To Top

Is there any way to weed out the jerks, players, cheaters and creeps online?

Anything that you can be wary of or might give a clue? Or is it just trial and error in online dating?

- POP'd by Female, 29-35

I had a nice interaction on match.com this week. A few days of exchanges with an interesting

man. I know that I was appropriate in conversation, but then he started to get kind of perverted, like saying "send more pictures, I want to see more of you" etc. Is this normal on match or did I get a rare perv? Is match a common site for "hook-ups" . I am new to this, so what is the deal here? ARe there sites more moralistic than match?

- Asked by Female, 29-35
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Jokes, Polls & Anything Else / 11:45 AM - Monday August 10, 2009 Back To Top

Calling all cheaters!!!!!.......

What's worse:

Cheating multiple times with multiple people.

OR

Cheating multiple times with the same person?



Update: August 10, 2009.
Why is your answer worse then the other choice?

- Asked by honey1306, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Denver, Who Cares?
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