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Dating / 2:02 PM - Sunday November 01, 2009 Back To Top

Should i tell my exboyfriend pregnant girlfriend that he was with both of us at the same time?

I was with this guy for a 4 monthsz ...everything was very good when we 1st started going out we spent alot alot of time together he meet all my friends and i meet his, in the third month i noticed a change he began ignoring me when i would call and text him and sometimes he would say he's coming to see me and he would never show up, we were going through some difficult issues because i began thinking that he;s cheating on me bc he stopped showing me the attention that he usto he just changed and i was doing all the work in our relationship. in the beggining of the 4th month he broke up with me out of the blue and i was shocked however a week later we began going out again one day later i noticed he wasnt online on AIM and he always is i signed on 2 my other s.n and noticed he blocked me and changed his status"i love my babii......" and he put a date...i figured out that was his ex girlfriend. there back together now and he left me for her however me and him were still intimate bc he kept denying that she was his girlfriend ...a couple weeks later he accept it to me which really hurts and then a few days later i found out that she's 5 months pregnant and at the same time me and him would make 5 months if we were still together which means he been doingme wrong from the very beginning....i feel horrible & sad like i meant nothing to him or i wasnt important enough...ii really trust this guy and gave him my all and now im heartbroken and often depressed...im trying to move on and i plan on letting go..but i feel like telling her do you think i should bc she has no idea about me and him or that he was with both me and her at the same time...they been together for almost three years minus the four months weve been together and four months before that i need help guys should i tell her bc if i was her i would want to know or should i just leave it alone and push my self to 4get it?

- Asked by deviousdiva7, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?
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Dating / 12:52 PM - Thursday October 29, 2009 Back To Top

Need your opinion. I have been talking to a woman online for about two weeks and am really enjoying

my conversations with her, but there is a woman here that I was going to ask out before I met the woman online. The only reason I hadn't is because I thought she had changed jobs because I no longer would see her when I went into her store and they had help wanted signs up, plus I had been out of town for about a week two times in the past several weeks. --My question is; should I ask her out anyway and just see what becomes of it or just wait until I see what happens with the woman online?
I know the gal online may be talking to other guys too, that's the point of the whole thing. Assuming the woman here says yes, at what point do I tell her that I have been talking to the other woman, and vice versa?
I know this sounds trivial, but I am an extremely loyal guy who hates drama and I don't know if I could 'date' the two of them for a couple dates and see whom I preferred (as others may suggest).
The woman online lives about 4hrs away, is almost 31 (I'm 29, but age doesn't make a huge diff. for me) and has a 2yr old and is a very devoted mother (what I'm looking for, I want a family someday sort of soon). The woman here looks to be in her mid-twenties. She's a football fan (I love football!) but I don't know what type of woman she is. FYI

Thanks in advance!

- Asked by A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Self-Employed
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Married Life / 10:45 PM - Wednesday October 28, 2009 Back To Top

Is it right from family members to tell you kids don't be like your mom & have unhealthy relationshi

My brother was online last night on facebook talking to my daughter telling her you know your mom is not a very good role model as far as realtionships go and I worry you will follow in her footsteps. He went on to say that I want you to be differenet from you mom as her and your dad, who is my ex are poor examples of what a healthy reationship is...no duh why I am divorced.

Of course my daughter was very defensive and felt the need to protect me. I have been very honest with my girls that I made a bad choice with their dad and it was not healthy. I have told them I would like them to learn from my mistakes and I am very open and honest about it.

My brother also said your mother needs to stay home with you girls every night. My ex takes my girls for like 8 hours a week, no overnight. My girls are 11 and 15 and one night a week I go out after I give them dinner and help them finish their homework, I go out for a couple hours with a gf or work out at the gym. Sometimes on Friday night I might have a date and am home by 10 and leave like at 6. My ex picks my kids up usually on Sat/Sun at 5 and returns them at 10 and if I have a date I will go out in those hours and spend the weekend with my kids til 5. He is obvisouly critical about it and says I shouldn't do that..

My mom does this same thing too and do you think it is right for family to do this, to talk to their daughter/son's child or their sisters/brothers child about what they think their parent is failing at and how they think they should look at it?

I got really upset at the comments and got told you know they are true and why your upset is because you don't like your kids hearing the obvious about your fault. NO I don't like others telling my kids how they should be raised and how they shouldn't be like their mother or what their mother is right and wrong to do?

Am I wrong here? What would you do it these girls were you and your mom and brother were making the above comments to them?

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Medical / Dental
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Dating / 2:55 PM - Wednesday October 28, 2009 Back To Top

Dating Online for Baby Boomers

If you're a baby boomer who has suddenly felt the need to date online, keep these new rules in mind.

1. You're Allowed to Date More Than One Person at the Same Time:

Back in the '50s and '60s, it was rare for a woman to date more than one man.

Nowadays, women date various men simultaneously. After all, we're all about multi-tasking now. If you like a couple of guys (maybe even more?), it's okay to test out the waters and go on dates with all of them.

As you learn more and more about each, you can start weeding out the bad and picking out the good. Before you know it, you'll narrow it down so well, you'll be down to date the one that you really like just like the good ol' days.

2. Kissing is Okay on the First Date:

If he leans in to kiss you at the end of the first date, don't be surprised. If you like him and are feeling the mood, I say go for it.

People aren't as prudish now as they were once, you know. You won't be labeled easy by kissing the guy on the first date. In fact, doing so might speed up the process of weeding out the bad-if he's a bad kisser, you won't waste your time going on date number two.

3. Don't Expect Flowers:

Back in the day, it was normal for boys to bring girls flowers while they're dating. Times definitely have changed.

Instead of flowers in the beginning of a relationship, many men save that gift for when they make a mistake, have to say sorry or an anniversary.

Once in a while, you'll find a true romantic who will give you flowers on the first few dates-many women who have been on the receiving end of this, however, have deemed it strange or presumptuous. Go figure.

4. You Can Take Turns Paying:

Before Women's Suffrage and the Civil Rights Movement, men used to pretty much pay for everything. But now that "all men" are created equal (which includes half of the nation's population-as in, women), it's okay to take turns.

Sure, the good catch will opt to pay, but at least make the reach. Don't just sit there twiddling your thumbs. By making the reach, you'll be telling him that you're a strong, independent woman. How empowering?!

5. You Can Make the First Move:

You no longer have to wait for him to make the first move. From hand-holding to the first kiss, women are more empowered now more than ever.

We're bosses, executives, bread-winners. so why can't we make the first move now? If you like your date (and you believe he feels exactly the same way), grab a hold of his hand or lean in to kiss him at date's end. He might even be turned on by your gusto.

Update: October 28, 2009.
Excellent Responses received. Glad that most people are so receptive that things have changed from when we were in our 20s. But.......I can't take credit for writing the post. I got it in an email from another website, but it said a lot of what I would have said if I had personally written it. Its hard dating these days for those of us 50 plus whether we look good for our age or not! (smile).......there are still gold digger women and playboy men out there........thinking that they are still 20 something, and ready to ruin somebody's life.......who in our age range......'just want to find somebody to get along with peacefully' (smile), with NO drama tagging along.

- Asked by jpm51, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Baltimore, Administrative
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Dating / 5:19 AM - Saturday October 24, 2009 Back To Top

English question for you

He drove 45' to come to pick me up and took me out on first date for dinner/movie from 7:30 to 12:30. We had great time, talk about our desires, laugh and he was a very respectfully man, never say sexually stuffs or try to touch me, he gave me a hug when he dropped me off and said good night. He just texted me when he got home that thanks me for a great time, that I'm very sexy and *let's stay in touch*, he is going to sleep, good night..etcc

When the guy said *let's stay in touch* means he just seeing me as friend, not a potential date?. He is a accomplished police man/Hispanic man with great smile/fit/work hard and very kind and a bit shy, he is 48/5'10 and very responsible. He was born in US. He texed me when ever he had time even when he was on the street of San Francisco on the job, I admire him for being in the most dangerous job to deal with gangs members for 27 years

Yeah I met him online a couple weeks ago and I would see him again, what a nice and great police officer!

Thanks guys

- Asked by azianchemistry, A Player, Female, 46-55, San Jose, Who Cares?
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Shopping and Coupons / 9:53 AM - Friday October 23, 2009 Back To Top

Has Goodhousekeeping magazine given its subscription department the "seal of approval?"

I have read Goodhousekeeping for years. This past August I decided to subscribe instead of purchasing at a store. I received one issue in September and thats it. The Oct and Nov issues are out in stores but I never received them. I completed the "missing issue" online. Still nothing. It said they would add a month onto my expiration date. Great more issues I will never receive. Boo to you Goodhousekeeping and your subscription department.

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Dating / 3:21 AM - Thursday October 22, 2009 Back To Top

Question of my own...

I met a guy...well, I haven't met him yet...on a dating site a few weeks ago. we exchanged a few messages on there, then on email and instant messenger. We have stayed up all night on im and we text almost daily...sometimes the texts are lengthy discussions, other times it is just to see how our days are going. We are both in school and have jobs so we are very busy.

I looked him up at the university and he is a student there like he said (i did an online search). He had emailed me through his university email so I know that is his real name.

He asked me on a date about 10 days ago, but has not set a specific time or day. He also has not called me.

I am not wanting to rush into anything, and I am not needy-but if this guy actually wants to get to know me to see if this will really go anywhere...shouldn't calling me be on his to do list?

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Online Dating Sites that have worked?

So I know that 90% of the internet using world think that dating websites are creepy and ineffective but they must work at least somewhat because they are still out there.
I'm new to me area, I really know no one, and there really aren't any social meet up spots. So after 6 months of grocery stores, work, etc, I decided to to try plentyoffish. I made my filters and profile very clear so that i wouldn't get a bunch of creeps, gross guys, complete nerds, etc. Somehow in the first day Ive gotten 7 responses that pass that filter but still fall into something completly weird not so ok things (criminal records, youtube videos of them doing stupid things,won't move out of mom's basement because he can't afford a place that will fit all of his star wars stuff)Ive respond to profiles that seemed nice but all of the ones that respond to me are the creepy ones.

Any experience with dating sites that worked well for you? Like which sites? THANK YOU

- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 22-25, Student
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Dating / 11:27 AM - Wednesday October 21, 2009 Back To Top

Why can't I get a break?

Ever since I was a teenager I've had no luck with getting into relationships. I didn't know until about a year or two ago that this was probably because I have asperger's syndrome and it results in me being very scared to take risks with women.

There have been many moments when I would meet a girl, develop feelings for her, and then it would not turn out for whatever reason.

I've experienced everything from blatant rejections to becoming heartbroken when I find out the girl is dating someone else.

The pattern seems to be repeating itself again with a girl I met online a couple months ago. It almost seemed certain that were going to start dating when we first met, however that outcome is starting to feel more unlikely and I even fear that she might have even met someone else to date.

I know that relationships aren't everything and there are plenty of things for a single guy to do, however I describe myself as a hopeless romantic who really wants to fall in love with someone and start a family.

I just wish that for once I could meet a girl that returns the feelings I develop for her.

- Asked by A Couch Potato, Male, 26-28, Toronto, Student
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Dating / 10:15 PM - Tuesday October 20, 2009 Back To Top

DATING DIVORCED DAD, PLEASE HELP!!!

Need help so much! I am feeling so insecure about this - we met online, sweet e-mails/texts/phone calls, not every day, but each time we saw each other he would say he couldn't wait to see me again. Went out to dinner a few times, talked for hours, kissed on second date lightly, then dates after that we were basically at his house where he cooked me lunch or dinner, and we made out progressively more, but no 2nd base, but lay on the couch together with clothes on. It was amazing, he was amazing emotionally and physically. After 1 month of dating twice a week, I surprised him by seducing him - he was floored. We made passionate love, were very emotional, and he called me several times the next day. Fast forward a few more weeks of staying in for dates and making love, I asked him about his daughter, wanted our kids to casually get together for a playdate, not saying we were so serious or anything like that, but wanted to get an idea of how the kids would play together, because my daughter is central in my life, and so is his, so I didn't want us to spend 6 months to a year in a relationship without thinking the kids would be hit it off, because they are both girls, similar in age.

His ex-wife and daughter's mother LEFT them basically for TWO years when she was 6 years old! I know he's scared of her getting really hurt - I don't blame him! I don't want to demand anything at all, but there are many cases where guys don't want to introduce the kids because they aren't serious at all about a girl, and don't have real respect for her, don't want to do the "right" proper things. That's also part of what I'm afraid of since...

I feel that he is treating me a little differently (or maybe the same) as before we slept together. He's such a great dad, so devoted, seems honest, and treated me really well before and right after we made love (his words, sweet), but I think I slept with him too soon, and every few days, only spent time at his house.

Maybe he thinks I'm getting too serious because I said I don't want to be someone's 3 month girl, if that's what he wants. He also said that he doesn't want us even kissing goodbye outside of his house for fear that the neighbors kids will come back to tell his daughter (who's only there part time) and she will be very upset.

The last time we met was this past Sunday and while he had asked me to come over initially (we slept together and had dinner out the night before, was great), I this time volunteered to come over and was feeling like seducing him again. We went upstairs, made love, but this time, he felt bad that he couldn't do it as long - I didn't care at all, complimented him greatly, that I just wanted to be close to him.

Then, we had a conversation about the kids getting together to which he said, "I'm not there yet." Then, he asked me to go away with him for a weekend, to which I said, I would love to, just not right now, MAYBE FOR NEW YEAR'S EVE! because, even though we slept together, I can't go away with someone to a hotel that my mom and daughter haven't even met, because my daughter and mom live with me every day, and my daughter wants to meet him, and they are both worried about me. I don't think he took this too well, though he said he understood.

I had recently invited him to pick me up at my house, where my mom and daughter happen to live, he was reluctant (wasn't that way before we slept together, tried to be a real gentleman).

Now, when we would get together he'd say, "When can I see you next?" And now, I've asked HIM that this past Sunday, and he said, "Tuesday or Wednesday," but I didn't hear from him today.

I called him and he said he was just about to call me (a lie?). I said about lunch tomorrow, to which he said he has a meeting, could we make it for Friday.

I told him I wasn't feeling well, which I wasn't today, and he texted me later in the day asking how I was. Then, we spent an hour or so texting each other back and forth playfully, and I ended it sweetly, but still getting the feeling that he is backing off just a bit because of our talk and maybe because he felt like he couldn't perform the last time we made love (which was before our talk).

How foolish I feel - I should have kept my mouth shut. I really like him, didn't want to turn him off.

I feel like I screwed up big time, that he thinks I'm not a "nice" girl, maybe a crazy girl, and not a girl he could be serious about.

I am so sad, I could cry. Please help me.

- Asked by datingmom40, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45
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Dating / 9:38 PM - Tuesday October 20, 2009 Back To Top

how can I get even or at least feel better about this situation ? (prepare for a novel length story)

Ok so here is the deal... I was talking to this guy who i really like for about six months nonstop. We started conversing online and one-day just happend to be at the same place at the same time and recognized each other from our profile pictures. All of a sudden this encounter led to phone calls and text messages and finally we went out hit it off and then went out 3 more times. I planed to take it slow but on our 4th date we wound up at his place where we had a few drinks and decided it might be fun to frolic between the sheets (not my usual style but why not I'm a grown woman right?) So everything went great he didn't even want me to leave after. We cuddled, he walked me home, we kissed, and made vague plans for next time. Before I said good night he told me to text him before I went to sleep so I did. He didn't text back until 2 days later asking if He scared me off, at this point I was confused and said no why on earth would you say that? He never answered a few days passed and I texted back hello are you ok and still no answer its been two weeks and I noticed about a week ago that he isn't going to call or text because its over he got what he wanted and now he's on to someone else but this is the first time that this has happened to me and I know I will see him again because he coincidentally knows lots of people in my circle. I'm raging mad and want revenge lol.... so how can i get my revenge or help the anger subside so that I don't want the revenge as much anymore?

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