Are there any circumstances that an ex could act so badly that you'd tell his mother what he did?

I did, but mostly because I thought that the only reason that he did these terrible things (not run of the mill bad, but really bad betrayal) was because he thought that no one else but me would ever know. We're both in our thirties, so obviously I don't expect her to punish him or be able to do anything about it, but maybe this will finally force him to face the shame of what he did.

this ones for the ladies

but any one can answer

If you first met, or came across someone with a handicap/disability would your reaction be based on your previous exposure to it?

What to do??????????

What to do about an ex who won't stop calling and sending me text messages?

He was emotionally abusive and a cheater.

Do I just delete the texts as they come? It hasn't been that long so I'm hoping he'll give up soon so I won't have to change my number. (My cell phone carrier doesn't offer the option to block phone numbers)

One problem with relationships - not taking responsibility - what do you think?

I had a post a couple of days ago about how people are stupid who BLINDLY trust the government. Don't get me wrong, I think our government is good given that we live in an imperfect world, but it's stupid to trust it blindly. You have to take responsibility for your life, not expect the government to take care of you, and that includes not blindly trusting the government, but asking questions, etc.

However, I think people make this same mistake in relationships - they don't take responsibility for their own lives and they do things like blame the opposite sex when they really need to look at their own actions and take responsibility.

What do you think?

A yuppie business woman in town for an important meeting,

checked into her room at the swank hotel and unpacked her bags. Noticing that her favourite suit had been badly wrinkled during the flight, she phoned the front desk and asked to have the hotel's valet service pick up the suit for pressing.

Barely two minutes after she hung up the phone, a knock sounded at the door and there stood an elderly Chinaman.

Impressed by the speedy service, the career woman exclaimed, "My, you come lickety-split!"

"No ma'am," replied the old Chinaman, "I come get laundry."

Once Apple makes an iPhone that can hold more than 60 gigs and my company gets it, I'm getting one.

I have a song collection in excess of 7500+ songs. I can plugin my iPod to a set of speakers, put it on Shuffle, and it will play 24 hours a day for 25 days straight without repeating a song from my collection.

If they ever make one of those 60+ gig iPhones that can hold my entire song collection, I will have in my possession a device that can:

1. Talk with other people over phone lines or text.
2. Access the Internet anywhere the network allows.
3. Play games and perform a wide variety of useful/useless applications.
4. Act as a appointment book, contacts book, and calendar.
5. Play video and display photos as a digital album.
6. Take photos and video as a camera.
7. Play 25 straight days worth of music with a proper power source.

You may say there are a lot of things that separately do things better, but did you ever imagine that in the future we'd have a device barely larger than a deck of cards that would be able to do all of these things?

What's so good about the I-Phone?

Other than being able to access the internet (which is expensive), does it have any other real benefits or is it mostly just hype?

Hypo situation here, what can you think up?

Adult moves in to the parents home to take care of aging father. Other brothers and sisters stop by now and then and take some responsibility but mainly it's #1 person doing all the running around to Drs., hospitals, drug stores, get groceries, on and on. It is gradually increasing in the time spent as the father ages and his abilities decrease. Now, #1 person needs to get back in the work force, as all this time, he has been off drawing unemployemnt which is soon to expire. This will create a major upheavel in the home due to the fathers' need for constant assistance and a watchful eye. It has been determined by all that a person coming into the home to help as well as the father going to a day care or home are totally not options. The father is most comfortable and happy with #1 doing for him and keeping him safe and company.
......The family does have sufficent means to pay off the current caretaking persons bills and provide a stipend so that #1 could stay home with the father and it's a full time job, more than full time. Does this seem ethical, or mercenary? Any other ideas?

It's GROUNDHOG Hour!

So.. now that the clocks are backwards, and we have to repeat 1am all over again..

What would you do differently?

Whoa.. deja-vu. I feel like I just asked this!

what could cause my gf to become loose all of a sudden?

Update: November 01, 2009.
theres moret 2 it we use 2 be like little bunnies doin it almost every night (sometime several times a night) without change for almost 7 years... Then around 7 months ago when I started to notice something seemed different she started losing interest and and now its only gotten WAY worse... Its down to like once in a while in she doesnt enjoy it like she use to... Ive asked her why in she just denies it and says its still just as good...

How bout Brett Favre! 4 TD's..