Re: recipe from Oct. 2009 Issue, pg 185.

Indicates oats are supposed to be cooked in microwave for 4-5 min. Why? Is this to "toast" the oats? If so, couldn't this be done in oven while preheating?

Guys, hot and raunchy sex....

Do you like it when we snowball you? That means we give you head, then kiss you and put your cum in your mouth. It seems like a fair trade if you want to spit on my vagina, and you better swallow!

Girls & hot ranchy Sex -

do u like when we spit on your vagina?

Last Round Call for Spot's Silly Personality Profile Quiz!

P.S. ~ I have no clue as to why this is in S&I when I catagorized this under Jokes, etc... oh well! Bonus points if you can point out the "naughty" (?) words!

Which would you rather be???

1) A zonked-out passive-agressive househusband who walks around in his flannel pj pants all day

2) A silver flute with one too many holes

3) A plump groundhog that's all set to hibernate all winter but is an atheist

4) A truly devout Head Of Corrections at an Episcopalean Trout Farm

??? I know it's tough, but please choose only ONE. Then I'll tell you the INNER meaning of your choice!

Update: October 26, 2009.
IN CHOOSING: #1) This means you've become too bound up in attempting to please others and your inner temperature is just about at critical mass. Take appropriate action BEFORE going Postal. Remember, lethargy is just anger turned inwards. #2) Hoooo, wow are you an over-achiever! You've been suckered into the game of one-extra-hole-up-mansh ip. Time to calm down and stop all that blowing---your air is just leaking out making you dizzy. #3) Ah! Here we have the Boddhisatvas of the A/O crowd---those compassionate beings who dwell primarily in serenity and know that "atheist/religious" are just labels. It is all One. #4) This choice means you are comfortable with wielding authority through the masculine principle...but your weakness is in not knowing when it is also good to surrender. AND THAT'S YOUR OCELOT FORTUNE-COOKIE FOR THIS EVENING!

If you really love somone and care about them so much, how do you tell them or let them know????

Explain to me the difference between these two situations

Most people here would agree that women would feel uncomfortable showering and sharing a locker room with male strangers like at gyms, dormitories, etc. Even if the male stranger doesn't do anything, most women would feel uncomfortable just being naked or changing clothes around male strangers.

By the same token, lots of men are uncomfortable sharing such private settings with homosexual men. I know they're not going to do anything, but it still makes me uncomfortable being nude around homosexuals.

why can't I feel uncomfortable being naked around a homosexual man without being labeled homophobic?

Take any sports or gym locker room. If a straight man says he's uncomfortable being nude around an openly gay man, does that automatically make him homophobic?


Update: November 01, 2009.
I'm not afraid of being sexually assaulted by a homosexual guy. I just don't want to be naked or even change clothes around a gay man. When did it become wrong and discriminatory for a straight man to feel uncomfortable around homosexual men in locker room settings?

What is best method for treating a yeast infection?

Do you think that people over 70 years old should be allowed to drive?

Yes or No?

Physical abuse is much worse than verbal abuse

Whether it's a parent abusing their children, husband abusing his wife, or students picking on other students...... I think physical abuse is worse than verbal abuse.

How do you feel?

Update: November 05, 2009.
All forms of abuse are wrong but I think verbal abuse is the "lesser evil" here, but most of you disagreed. My reasoning is this: physical abuse affects the victim physically as well as non-physically but verbal abuse only affects a person non-physically. The physical abused victim will suffer all the things verbally abused victims suffer plus the physical trauma. But the verbal abused victim never suffers physical damage.

Does anyone speak french? I need someone to translate a message I got...

thanks!

Women. Big problem and I need your take please. Am divorcing, don't want to but she does.

We have kids together. She has the house, and I am out of there to keep things nice for the kids as possible. She is now treating me very badly. She is rude on the phone, short, treating me like I am an abuser or some mean person. I have tried just being polite, keep the conversations very simple, but now she sent me some email saying I am never to stand in her door again. I dropped off the kids and just walked up to give her the backpacks and stuff and she got very mad now. I don't know what I did wrong. I know I wish we could work this out but she has obviously no desire. How can love for women turn into this hatred? What goes on in a woman's mind? There is no abuse, no affairs... I can't make sense of why she is behaving like this. I think we should be able to be friends and just keep it cool so we don't have a problem for the kids sake.
What is wrong with women these days? I did what I was supposed to do, take care of things, work, pay bills, be a good provider and be a friend. Now I am kicked to curb and live in a crappy apartment with all my money going to support my old home. I can't see not doing that because I don't want the kids hurt, I don't want this to get ugly. Why do you turn love into hate like this women, why?

Update: November 09, 2009.
So I did just get to ask her finally as we ended up having to talk and I point blank asked what was this all about since I was bringing the backpacks ans stuff. Her response was it made her uncomfortable and so I should not do that to her. Is it because she feels guilty? Nothing I did should cause her to feel uncomfortable. I told her I would not walk up to the door again. I'm just so confused.

Update: November 09, 2009.
Yes this is only my side of the story. I realize that. What I don't understand is how someone who professed such love and dreams can turn so caustic. It achieves nothing. Going our separate ways and paths now, but honestly it makes no sense to me at all. I will be a good guy still in this but my faith in women is gone. How can you share any dream with anyone if you know that one day they could possibly like this. It just means everyone is fake. There is nothing real except the love I have for my kids.