How do I know when its time for my kids to meet my boyfriend? I have a great guy in my life. We've been together for 4 months. He accepts me with my kids and all. We have a good relationship and he's even talking about possibly marrying me in a year and a half or so.
He has met my 3yr old daughter and she likes him alot. I also have two boys ages 11 and 13. My boyfriend has spent the night on the weekends before. When I lock my bedroom door and my kids can't get in, they know he's "visiting" mom. They often ask "when are we going to get to meet him mom?" But I don't have the answer. My boyfriend wants to meet them too but since I left my ex of 14yrs like 5 months ago and he visits the kids often, he says the boys aren't quite ready to meet him just yet.
I asked my boys how they feel about meeting my new "friend" and although they say they are ready, I'm not quite sure they know.
What do you readers think? Is it too soon? - Asked by Female, 29-35, Chicago, Financial / Banking |