What has happened to my sex life? Okay this is a serious question. Here's some background:
I'm 21 years old & so is my boyfriend. We've been together for three years now. When we first started having sex, it was great. We had the healthiest sex life I could have dreamed of. Averaging about 3 times a day, sometimes more. Since then, we've been through a lot of changes/problems. He lost his job, I had to quit school & go back to work, and his parents are not supportive of our relationship at all. They kicked him out & so he's lived with me off and on for over a year. We've each battled with bouts of depression, and it feels like a lot of distance has built up between us. We fight more, when we never used to fight at all. It breaks my heart.. and I don't know what to do. Our sex life has really suffered, ever since he lost his job he's had a lot less confidence & self-esteem. I have anxiety & a lot of stress, and I have trouble reaching orgasm, and that makes things even worse. We've both become very frustrated. I'm afraid that if things get worse it will be too much for us. Has anyone ever been in this situation? Any advice for a troubled young couple in love? - Asked by A Hippie Chick, Female, 18-21, Retail |