What do I do about my girlfriend? She is always jumping to conclusions... I have been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year and 1 month, and recently things have been turning sour. I have just turned 19 and started college and she is 17, (nearly 18). We get on great together. We see each other at the weekends when I get back from college, and it is usually great. The only problem is, she accuses me of unfair things. So far she has accused me of wanting to have sex with my friend, and another thing she has accused me of was actually having sex with a different friend who I saw for the first time in 2 years. She has jumped to conclusions without hearing an explanation from me. Don't get me wrong, I really do love my gf a lot, but I am finding it hard to cope with these accusations, as tonight (25-10-2009) she accused me of only going to her house to have sex with her. After 1 year together without cheating, shouldn't she know that she is the only one for me, or am I doing something wrong? I think she may have some insecurities but she says she doesn't.
I don't want to break up with her but I feel I must unless she sees the error of her ways. Everytime something comes up, something bad happens. e.g, my graduation night from school she refused to come out and celebrate with me cause she couldn't be arsed. She also got really pissed off when I told her I would be renting an apartment for college.
I need some serious advice. I don't want to lose her, but is there any way to sort this out? I have tried talking to her about it, but it doesn't seem to work. Thank you :)
Update: October 26, 2009.
Thank you for you advice, i have taken all the facts into condsideration and i know what i must do. thank you very much. i owe you one :) - Asked by blankstare2009, A Guy Critical, Male, 18-21, Dublin | 