I'm receiving oral for the first time tomorrow..

I'm NERVOUS. What if he hates it? What if I feel so awkward and self-conscious that I don't even enjoy it?

Any tips/advice/stories of personal experience?? All comments are greatly appreciated :(

Update: October 22, 2009.
Lol. He wanted to last time we saw each other and I said "maybe next time" ... it's not as planned out as I made it sound haha

Who is the "Boogeyman?"

Anyone seen the "Boogeyman movie? It just started and some guy got yanked into the closet by a monster. Is this a Stephen King movie?? I used to sit up in bed at night and imagine something or someone was in my closet. If I watch this am I going to be up all night hearing noises? This is what happens when you grew up with a sister that hid under the bed and grabbed your ankle when you passed by. What a scream!!!

I know you have one. And it's time to ask it....

What personal question about sex have you been dying to ask your fellow A-ologists?

When's the last time you ate a peanut butter sandwich?

I love peanut butter, but don't eat it that often because I'm not aloud to have it at work. I have 2 kids in my program that have severe allergies to nuts. I'm always afraid if I eat peanut butter and then breathe on them or something, they'll have a reaction...I guess I'm a little paranoid.

How much longer should I wait for my boyfriend to propose?

My boyfriend owns a house with his brother and his brother's wife. All 3 of them are part owners of the house. I would like my boyfriend to move out and live with me so we can start our life together. He keeps saying that he can't move out of his house, or find a renter, or sell his house because of the economy. He doesn't want to leave his brother and his wife stranded. I understand but I also feel like he is using this as an excuse to delay our future. We have been dating for over 2 years now. How much longer should I wait for him to "figure" out his house situation so he can start a future with me. I am 29 and he is 32.

Regarding Going down on a woman... Some people have said on this site...

That going down on a woman in her 40s is not quite as gratifying or the same as going down on an 18-21 year old...
What are you thoughts? Ladies and gents... I'm curious about this one.

When was the last time that your REALLY stubbed your toe..oocha oucha...dam

What do you do when you're husband of 24 years suddenly says he wants a divorce and leaves?

Is this mid-life crisis taken to the extreme?

Sitcom Tunes To Make Children Cry

What television sitcom theme song do you know the words to? All the words.

Ashamed to say "Charles In Charge"

i cant stop crying it just hurts so much

i been crying all day. my bf of 2 yrs - we had such a rocky relationship. bcz he was going about things all wrong, doing wrong things & the things he did and did NOT do had a domino effect on our relationship & caused alot of arguments, break-ups & negativity. it was all severely damaging. the arguments and hurtful things said and done were so severe & extreme. now he's somewhere trying to get himself together & we still talk but i'm crying alot because he wants to try to start all over & do right but i fell out of love with him. he believes we can get it back. but so much has happened, i fell out of love with him a long time ago but i stayed with him hoping things would change but they didnt. and it seems like now that he's trying to make an effort its too late bcz i just dont feel in love with him anymore. but i do love and care for him deeply. i dont know what to say or do and i wish i can get it back but i dont know if i can in some time or if it really is just never going to be the same. it hurts like hell because i really cared for him and wanted us to be together so bad.
has anyone ever gone thru this? can someone drop some experience or advice please?