I am widower, married to the same woman for almost 27 years before I lost her to cancer two years ago. She is the only women I been with in over 30 years. I have two children who still live at home, both are old enough to be on there own, but death of there mother was hard on them. I am not willing to kick them out as we help strengthen each other. There is only room for one head of the house. I am an ex-football player, ex-military, retired (medically) law enforcement officer, (bad knees my dancing days are over).